Yes, confidence is something you can learn. I struggle with myself. A lot. A background in a pretty grueling sport has turned me into a bit of a perfectionist, and when I feel like I fall short of my goals, I'm really hard on myself. I start to find every flaw and pick it apart. I feel like everyone is gossiping about my negative qualities. Sometimes, I just really, really don't like myself. It can become tricky when these feelings rear their ugly heads, because then I can drive myself ... View the Post